Interesting

This is the first time in a lonnng time that I wrote in my blog. Everything has happened that can happen.

Its time to get started writing again. My soul is feeling traumatized in so many ways.

Catching up, I have a relationship that is all my own. In a lot of ways I feel like I sold my soul to the devil. I met someone, we fell hard for each other. I gave up everything that I had to be with her. Now, Im stuck in so many ways.

I have nothing, no job, no home, nothing. I know this woman loves me but I also think she is insane, or at least out of touch.

My problem with her is that she has no clue as to what is happening around her. She lives in the past, when she was famous. My trial is how to help her realize that she is not famous now. How to help her find a way to support herself and potentially our family should she no longer be able to work in her current field.

I feel like she will never understand me, and I will never understand her. Its saddening to me. We keep finding little pockets of love. They glow and shimmer, calling us into the depths. Then once they flicker out, we are left on the islands of acceptance. Where we live a life of bland.

I just don't know what to do. She is so unlike me, so unlike anyone I have encountered. In some ways she has made me better. She has made me better, made me evaluate the person that I am. In others, she has totally changed me. Im less outspoken. I hold my words and feelings inside because I never know whats going to set her off. I let my feelings simmer below the surface and allow her to lavish her sentiments-good and bad-all over me like the ocean closing over my head. At times I do feel like Im drowning, but what are the options? I know that when she finishes her tirades, she will hold out an arm and pull me back into a rocky, yet safe boat.

Things are happening around me, things I cannot even begin to address. I try not to see them, try not to seek out the solace that is being offered to me. Part of me wonders if it is Divine intervention. Are these lights being placed in my path to illuminate the shadows of my world? Are they here to show me just what exactly is in the dark spaces of this relationship? Are they being given to me as beacons, beacons I should follow to a different space?

I am so very tired. How long can a person live a life like this? How long can a person stifle their true self in order to keep the peace? Its not healthy, and I know it, but what are the options.

That is my moody blue re-entry into the world of my blog. I will try to write more often. Its ironic that today marks the day after my 40th birthday. It is a time of change. I should be preparing to retire. I should be settled and married. I should own a home, and be with the person I love, cherish and respect. I do love her, I am just not sure we are to be. Time alone will tell.